Love Can Always Be Our Choice

6th Sunday in Ordinary Time Year A

“Do not think that I have come to abolish the law or the prophets. I have come not to abolish but to fulfill.” (Mt 5:17)

Our age has been an age of compromise, an age where moral laws and norms are discarded and sacrificed in favor of a wrong notion of individualism, freedom, and self-expression. There is nothing wrong in being yourself but we must make sure that what we pursue are our authentic selves.

The scriptural readings today which speak and extol God’s Law can surely alienate us who view laws as only necessary evils, things that just constraint our freedom so that others may enjoy theirs for a peaceful society, laws which can be broken relatively if we can justify it. What we need to remember however is that moral laws are not there to limit our freedom and self-expression, they are there for us to fully experience freedom and become our true selves. Oftentimes, because of our selfishness, we fail to see that morality is there not to limit our choices but rather to help us choose what is right and what is just.

“Before man are life and death, good and evil, whichever he chooses shall be given him.” (Sir 15:17)

We are what we choose and we are what we repeatedly do. Every act of freedom has two consequences, it will determine what we do and it will define who we will become. If we do a selfish act, we are not only doing a selfish act, we are also becoming selfish. In the Gospel, Lord Jesus has called us not only to obey but also to go beyond what is asked, bordering on what is seemingly ‘impossible’ for us. We can compare these commandments to the stars, which unreachable they may be, yet they can guide us and bring us to our destination, if we will just try to listen. Nevertheless, if our Lord Jesus has proven anything to us, it is that love is always possible. At the cross, in the face of all human dysfunction and corruption, the Lord has shown that love can always be our choice. Moreover, when asked what the greatest commandment is, the Divine Master told us to love God and one another.

The moral law was given for our self-becoming and to become our true selves is the greatest freedom. Above all laws, we have been commanded to love because love is not only the fulfillment of the law, it also empowers us to go beyond the law. That’s why the gospel today challenges us to go beyond what is asked of us by moral norms and social conventions. Empowered by love, there is no limit to what we can accomplish and to who we can become. By love alone, the world was saved, is saved and will be saved. As St. Francis de Sales eloquently puts it, “The measure of love is to love without measure.”

“Brothers and sisters: we speak a wisdom to those who are mature, not a wisdom of this age, nor of the rulers of this age who are passing away.” (1 Cor 2:6)

We are reminded by St. Paul that this is a truth that the world may never accept and understand. It is God’s wisdom which does not belong to this world, something which we can only understand once we lived through it. The reason why God just won’t take us all to heaven with a flick of his hand is that heaven is not just a prize at the end of this life. Heaven is a way of being, a way of living. That’s why we need to prepare ourselves for it by obeying God’s commandments by true love, by choice, by the deepest act of freedom and self-expression. Heaven is chosen, not just given, for heaven is love to which we say I do. Love is both the simplification and quintessence of the moral law. As St Augustine said, “Love and do what you will.”

And so let us always choose love. For:

“…it is written: what eye has not seen, and ear has not heard, and what has not entered the human heart, what God has prepared for those who love him.” (1 Cor 2:9)


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